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Toi Et Moi rings are among the most meaningful designs in fine jewellery, featuring two stones set side by side to represent two people coming together.
This classic two stone engagement ring design is rich in history. Napoleon Bonaparte famously gave Joséphine de Beauharnais a Toi Et Moi ring in 1796. In more recent years, celebrities like Ariana Grande and Emily Ratajkowski have brought the style back into the spotlight and popularised Toi Et Moi engagement rings among modern couples.
Importantly, rings aren’t the only style of Toi Et Moi jewellery. There are also Toi Et Moi pendants and earrings, for example, which make wonderful gifts for anyone you love.
At Moi Moi, our Toi Et Moi Collection is crafted in 18K gold or platinum and set with either premium lab grown diamonds or our brilliant SUPERNOVA Moissanite, offering you sustainable luxury at an accessible price point. It has remained one of our most popular collections, a timeless choice not just for engagements but for other special occasions and milestone moments, as well.
It’s easy to see why people are so drawn to the range, given the symbolism behind a Toi Et Moi ring or fine jewellery piece. Let’s look at what defines a Toi Et Moi ring and why this two stone design holds such a special place in fine jewellery.
What are Toi Et Moi rings?
The phrase “Toi Et Moi” is French for “You and Me”, and that’s exactly what Toi Et Moi rings symbolise. The two stones set side by side each represent an individual within a relationship.
The two stones are typically different in some way in a Toi Et Moi ring, whether it be two different cuts or two different gemstones, but they sit together in harmony, celebrating the connection between two people while still honouring their individuality.
This powerful symbolism has made the Toi Et Moi engagement ring a popular choice for couples throughout the years, and an enduring favourite in fine jewellery. Whether the stones are identical in size or deliberately contrasting in shape and colour, the message remains the same: two souls, side by side.
Are All Two Stone Rings Toi Et Moi Rings?
While all Toi Et Moi rings are two stone rings, not every two stone ring is a true Toi Et Moi. The defining feature of a Toi Et Moi ring is the way the stones are set together: side by side, symbolising unity.They also have a specific meaning tied to the French phrase for “you and me.”
Other two stone rings may place the gems apart, use different setting styles, or lack that symbolic connection. So, while the terms sometimes overlap, a Toi Et Moi ring has a more specific history, design and meaning than a simple two stone ring.
Why Couples Choose Toi Et Moi Engagement Rings Today
Couples today are drawn to Toi Et Moi engagement rings because they feel both personal and unique. For many, it’s a way to tell a story through design, because Toi Et Moi rings are easily customised.
Some couples choose one stone to represent each partner, some incorporate their birthstones into the design, while others use the second stone to symbolise something special, like a child, a shared milestone or a future together.
What makes this style especially appealing is the balance it strikes between classic and modern engagement ring styles. Toi Et Moi rings are undoubtedly a contemporary trend. One of the hallmarks of modern engagement rings is their focus on individuality and personalisation, which Toi Et Moi rings allow couples to express through creative stone pairings and unique settings. And yet, the Toi Et Moi style dates back to the 18thcentury, giving Toi Et Moi engagement rings an undeniably old-world romantic feel.
That rare combination of old and new makes Toi Et Moi rings a popular and enduring choice for couples who want something meaningful that also breaks from tradition.
The History of Toi Et Moi Rings
The ring Napoleon Bonaparte gave to Joséphine de Beauharnais in 1796Â is often credited as being the first ever example of a Toi Et Moi engagement ring. It featured two pear cut stones, one a sapphire and the other a diamond, and symbolised the bond between the two.
While it wasn’t the very first two-stone ring ever created (they were already appearing in European jewellery before the 18thcentury), Napoleon’s choice did help popularise the Toi Et Moi ring style and cement it as a symbol of romance and devotion.
Toi Et Moi engagement rings continued to appear throughout the 19th century, particularly during the Victorian era when sentimental jewellery often carried hidden meaning through gemstone choices.
In the 20th century, Jackie Kennedy’s engagement ring from John F. Kennedy brought the design back into the spotlight, featuring a 2.84ct emerald and a 2.88ct diamond set side by side. Queen Margrethe of Denmark’s engagement ring from Prince Henrik in 1967 showcased two princess cut diamonds with an estimated 12 total carat weight, further proving the enduring appeal of this meaningful style.
From Napoleon to the Kennedys and European royalty, Toi Et Moi rings have always carried an air of romance and distinction, a legacy that continues to influence modern fine jewellery today.
Famous Celebrity Toi Et Moi Engagement Rings
In recent years, celebrities have played a big role in bringing the Toi Et Moi engagement ring back into the spotlight. Their high-profile rings show just how versatile this two stone design can be.
- Ariana Grande received a unique Toi Et Moi engagement ring in 2020 from Dalton Gomez. It paired an oval cut diamond with a pearl said to hold sentimental family meaning for Gomez, showing how the design can combine different stones in deeply personal ways. When their relationship ended, Ariana held onto the ring, but seemingly had the pearl replaced with a diamond.
- Emily Ratajkowski also chose a Toi Et Moi style ring when she married Sebastian Bear-McClard in 2018. It featured a striking asymmetrical design, with a princess cut diamond set alongside a pear cut diamond. After their separation in 2022, Emily had her Toi Et Moi ring remade into two separate “divorce rings”, one featuring the princess cut and the other featuring the pear cut.
- Machine Gun Kelly proposed to Megan Fox with a Toi Et Moi engagement ring that combined their birthstones, an oval cut diamond and an emerald.
Additionally, Travis Scott gifted Kylie Jenner and her daughter, Stormi matching Toi Et Moi rings in 2021. Both rings feature an oval cut and a radiant cut diamond set side by side, although Jenner’s diamonds are noticeably larger than Stormi’s (estimated to be around 10 carats versus Stormi’s estimated 1 carat stones). This shows how the Toi Et Moi style doesn’t necessarily need to have romantic connotations; the meaning of “you and me” and the symbolism of two souls coming together can also refer to the love between mother and daughter or the bond between friends.
From pearls to emeralds to unconventional diamond cuts, these celebrity choices highlight the flexibility of the Toi Et Moi ring.Each one demonstrates how the two stone design can feel classic, yet endlessly customisable, making it just as appealing to modern couples as it was in Napoleon’s time.
Modern Toi Et Moi Ring Styles
One of the reasons Toi Et Moi rings continue to resonate with couples today is their adaptability. Modern jewellers are reimagining the two stone ring in fresh ways, creating styles that feel current while still honouring the design’s history.
Symmetrical vs Asymmetrical Toi Et Moi Rings
Couples who favour classic engagement ring styles may enjoy a more symmetrical Toi Et Moi ring, with two stones of the same size and shape set side by side. For those who prefer contemporary engagement ring designs, an asymmetrical Toi Et Moi ring featuring gemstones of contrasting cuts or sizes, gives a bolder and more fashion-forward look. Both options carry the same symbolic meaning but have very different aesthetics.
East-West Settings and Unique Orientations
Another way to give a Toi Et Moi engagement ring a modern edge is through the orientation of the setting. Contemporary engagement ring design embraces East-West settings, where gemstones are tilted horizontally across the band or positioned at playful angles rather than upright. These modern twists create visual movement and make each ring feel highly individual, while still celebrating the timeless symbolism of the two stone style.
Moissanite Toi Et Moi Rings
We specialise in Moissanite engagement rings here at Moi Moi Fine Jewellery, having introduced Australians to Moissanite back in 2004. Our exclusive SUPERNOVA Moissanite is the world’s most brilliant gemstone, offering exceptional fire and clarity.
In a Toi Et Moi ring, SUPERNOVA Moissanite is especially captivating. Its incredible sparkle makes it perfect for showing off two gemstones side by side. Moissanite is also extremely durable, which means it’s well suited to everyday wear, an important factor when both stones are centrepieces of the design.
Many modern couples choose Moissanite for its beauty, but also for its value. It allows you to create a larger carat Toi Et Moi engagement ring without compromising on brilliance or quality, making it a meaningful and accessible choice.
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Lab Grown Diamond Toi Et Moi Rings
For those who want their engagement ring to reflect both their love and their values, lab grown diamonds are an ideal choice. Couples choosing Toi Et Moi engagement rings are no exception. Lab grown diamonds offer the same beauty, durability and sparkle as mined diamonds, but without the environmental or ethical concerns.
Because lab grown diamonds come at a fraction of the cost of mined diamonds, you’re able to select larger carat sizes and more unique cuts than what might otherwise be possible, without compromising on quality.
We also specialise in lab grown diamond engagement rings and fine jewellery here at Moi Moi. Our premium lab grown diamond engagement rings are exclusively designed in-house and crafted in 18K gold and platinum. A Moi Moi lab grown diamond Toi Et Moi ring combines sustainable luxury with striking design, giving you a piece that is both consciously created and completely one of a kind.
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Popular Toi Et Moi Stone Combinations
One of the most exciting parts of choosing or designing a Toi Et Moi ring is deciding which two gemstones you’re going to have! Will you choose two of a kind or two completely different stones?
Whether you’re drawn to harmony or contrast, the shapes you select can completely change the overall look and feel of your ring. Here are some of the most popular stone combinations for Toi Et Moi rings:
Oval and Pear
This sought-after style combines the soft curves of an oval cut with the elongated point of a pear cut. Together, they create a romantic yet elegant look that flatters the finger. This combination feels classic but still offers a touch of uniqueness.
Emerald and Round
Pairing a step-cut emerald with a round brilliant brings a striking contrast. The clean, geometric lines of the emerald cut highlight the sparkle of the round stone. This mix of cuts symbolises balance between clarity and brilliance, making it a meaningful choice for couples.
Heart and Marquise
For those who love something more expressive, a heart cut paired with a marquise cut makes a statement. The heart cut naturally symbolises love, while the marquise, with its elongated, pointed shape, has historically represented royalty and ambition. Together, they create a playful yet meaningful two stone ring that feels both whimsical and distinctive.
From classic ovals and pears to more unexpected pairings, the beauty of a Toi Et Moi design is that it gives you the freedom to create something deeply personal.
Customising Your Toi Et Moi Engagement Ring
A big part of the appeal of a Toi Et Moi engagement ring is how easily it can be personalised. From the stones you choose to the way they’re set, every detail can be customised to reflect your unique style and your relationship.
Mixing Gemstones: Moissanite, Lab Grown Diamonds, Birthstones and More
Many couples love the symbolism of mixing stones in their Toi Et Moi engagement ring. You might choose to incorporate a birthstone or coloured gemstone, such as a pink lab grown diamond or a blue Moissanite alongside a classic white diamond or Moissanite, adding a personal touch that carries special meaning.
Whether it’s a sapphire for loyalty, an emerald for growth or a ruby for passion, a Toi Et Moi ring allows you to tell your story in a way that feels unique to you.
Choosing Metals, Settings and Engravings for a Toi Et Moi Ring
The metal and setting style play just as important a role in defining your ring’s character. 18K yellow gold gives a warm, traditional look, while platinum or white goldcreates a sleek, modern feel.
Settings can be kept minimal, like clean bezels or slim prongs, or made more ornate with halos, diamond-encrusted bands or decorative galleries.
Engravings are another way to make your Toi Et Moi ring deeply personal, whether it’s a date, initials or a short phrase hidden on the inside of the band.
Interlocking Band Toi Et Moi Rings
At Moi Moi, we’ve taken the classic Toi Et Moi design even further with interlocking band settings, where the band itself appears to weave around the stones. This creates a distinctive look while still honouring the “you and me” symbolism of the two stone style.
Our Florette, Claire and Odette rings all feature a single stone and are designed to be paired with classic solitaire rings from our Modern Bridal collection, achieving the Toi Et Moi effect with two separate rings. They can also be paired with many of our classic Moi Moi wedding bands. They’re a great option if you’d like to update your bridal stack to the more luxurious look of a two-stone engagement ring.
Design a Custom Toi Et Moi Engagement Ring at Moi Moi Fine Jewellery
We’re experts at custom engagement ring design here at Moi Moi Fine Jewellery. Whether it’s modifying a Toi Et Moi ring from our collection or designing something completely new from scratch, our dedicated team can help you bring your dream Toi Et Moi engagement ring to life.
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Toi Et Moi Engagement Rings, Anniversary Rings and Fine Jewellery
A Toi Et Moi engagement ringis one of the most symbolic styles you can choose for a proposal. The two stones sitting side by side represent two lives coming together, which makes it especially meaningful as a declaration of commitment.
Beyond proposals, Toi Et Moi rings also make wonderful gifts to celebrate anniversaries, milestones, personal achievements or simply the bond between two people, romantic or otherwise.
Some couples select one stone to represent their relationship and the other to symbolise a new chapter, such as the birth of a child or a special anniversary year.
Others look to Toi Et Moi fine jewellery, like earrings or pendants, which carry the same sentiment in a design suited for everyday wear. Toi Et Moi earrings are a lovely gift for Mother’s Day or even Christmas, while matching Toi Et Moi pendants can be a fabulous gift idea for two best friends.
Why Toi Et Moi Rings Endure
Few jewellery designs are as meaningful as the Toi Et Moi ring, with its two stones symbolising the bond between two people and two lives coming together.
If you’re looking for an engagement ring with meaning, the Toi Et Moi ringis a wonderful choice. From Napoleon’s sapphire and diamond ring for Joséphine to the modern interpretations worn by today’s celebrities, this two stone engagement ring style has always symbolised unity, individuality and love. Its ability to feel both classic and contemporary is what makes it such a lasting choice.
At Moi Moi, we’re proud to offer one of Australia’s most extensive collections of Toi Et Moi rings and Toi Et Moi jewellery. From the perfect Toi Et Moi engagement ring to a stunning pair of Toi Et Moi earrings for Mother’s Day, you’ll find your dream Toi Et Moi fine jewellery piece in our collection.
You can try view, try on and even take home our ready-to-wear pieces instantly in-store in Sydney and Melbourne, or browse our collection online.
What does a Toi Et Moi ring mean?
A Toi Et Moi ring translates from French to “You and Me.” It features two stones set side by side to symbolise two people coming together while still celebrating their individuality.
Are all two stone rings Toi Et Moi rings?
Not all two stone rings are true Toi Et Moi designs. A Toi Et Moi ring specifically sets two stones together to represent “you and me,” whereas other two stone rings may use different placements or lack the same symbolic meaning.
Are Toi Et Moi rings a modern engagement ring style?
Yes. While the design dates back to the 18th century, Toi Et Moi rings have become a hallmark of modern engagement ring design. Asymmetry, East-West settings and unique stone pairings have made them especially popular among today’s couples.
Are Toi Et Moi engagement rings expensive?
The cost of a Toi Et Moi engagement ring depends on your choice of stones, metal and overall design. Lab grown diamonds and Moissanite are more accessible options than mined diamonds, making it easier to achieve a larger look without compromising on quality.
Where can I buy Toi Et Moi rings in Australia?
You can explore the largest ready-to-wear collection of Toi Et Moi engagement rings at Moi Moi’s Sydney QVB or Melbourne Collins Street flagship stores. The full range is also available to shop online, with custom consultations available if you’d like to design your own.
Are Toi Et Moi rings suitable for everyday wear?
Yes. With the right setting, a Toi Et Moi ring is durable enough for daily wear. Choosing hard gemstones like Moissanite or lab grown diamonds along with regularly cleaning and caring for your ring will ensure it remains as beautiful as the day you received it.
Are all Toi Et Moi rings romantic?
Not necessarily. While Toi Et Moi rings are often chosen as romantic symbols in engagement and wedding jewellery, the design isn’t limited to that meaning. The two stones can represent anything you want, from friendship to family to personal milestones. That’s why Toi Et Moi styles also work beautifully in earrings, necklaces and anniversary rings, not just engagement rings.
